Category Archives: Love

Living without Love can make you more Authentic

Love, love, love! It is everywhere. We are all begging for more love. We just want people to love us. Love has its upside but have you ever thought about the downside of love? You who have ruined you health and life searching for love, somebody to love. What if I told you, that you could be better off without LOVE. Let us get the upside of love out of the way Love is a great de-stresser. It is a

How to become a better Listener

I have a ringing sound in my ear. It is very irritating, it is like your mom or wife constantly trying to tell you something. The ENT doctor says, my ear canal is blocked because of the cold. It is the most ridiculous health issue, but I had worst, so I might as well accept this one as another feather in the cap. This sickness of mine, medically known as tinnitus as made me think about the psychosomatic factors. It

How to HUG someone magically

A hug is magical and esoteric. I shouldn’t even be writing about it. In a research it was observed that new born babies who were touched put on weight faster and were healthier that the babies who were isolated. What applies to babies also applies to humans. We as a society have become suspicious of touch. The reason we are suspicious about a Hug is because a hug is hierarchical in nature. For eg. A elder person is more likely

Why I quit Tinder and how it made me hate standup comedians

Now how could tinder make a person hate standup comedian? Read below and see how these two tnings are connected in my life. I have been single for like 25 years; I mean at least it feels that way. So after much deliberation I downloaded the Tinder app. I felt shy, as I felt I was much too old to be on tinder. I put my ugly picture on it, and started swiping. It like a visual candy store, the

Betrayal dynamics

Yesterday I had an epiphany. I have a crazy paranoia of betrayal. Betrayal is just about the person who tells you, that he/she loves you, actually loves someone more than you. It’s a subtle change and sometime sudden change of attention dynamics. You were the apple of your mom’s eye, and then suddenly a baby is born in the family. You feel betrayed. Now is it your moms fault that the baby is adorable? Adultery, is a kind of similar

Market thinking in love

She said we will be together when you have enough money, and you are not working like a dog. He said, but I will never have enough money. Things have only been getting bad for me, in fact statistically, it is proven that people generally expect that things would be better in the future than they turn out to be. He says – I don’t care! Let’s move in, even if we have to starve, let’s start a family. <